“Grace, Grace…”
(By David Giarrizzo)
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I grew up in a home of four, and my mom was the only female. As my brother and I increased in age, so did the testosterone levels increase in the Giarrizzo household. My mom at times had her hands full trying to keep World War III from breaking out under our roof. I can recall more than a few epic battles that raged throughout the house (think: last scene from the latest Hulk movie!). What some might consider just two siblings in the same bedroom, my brother and I considered an operational fight club. I thank the Lord, though, that the good times that were had far outnumbered the bloody noses and busted collar bones.
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In the midst of my teenage years, when the sibling aggression was at its peak, I remember my dear, sweet mother’s voice reminding me often: “Grace, grace.” These words were sometimes said and sometimes sung. Even today, whenever I am about to lose my cool or lash out in judgmental fury on someone or something, I can hear mom’s voice singing that tune…
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Grace, grace, God’s grace,
Grace that will pardon and cleanse within;
Grace, grace, God’s grace,
Grace that is greater than all my sin.
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I am so grateful for this wonderful memory that has so many practical implications in my daily life. How important it is to remember God’s grace towards us. When we remember the grace of God, it should humble us. I should ask myself, “Who is a viler sinner than me?” And yet God’s grace saved me from my deserved punishment and cleansed me though and through. I can hardly comprehend the magnitude of such a divine act of grace.
“But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ— by grace you have been saved…” (Ephesians 2:4-5)
Accordingly, in light of the riches of God grace to us, we as heirs with Him should show such grace to others. This was my mother’s point when she would remind us of the grace of God. Every time she sang that song, she was reminding me to be gracious to others as God has been gracious to me.
“…grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ’s gift.” (Ephesians 4:7)
This kind of graciousness that Christians should show to others is not simply politeness or courteousness. Instead, graciousness is spiritually rooted. Our graciousness should mirror the graciousness of God: “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, but who will by no means clear the guilty…” (Exodus 34:6-7). God’s graciousness is great, yet specific; merciful, yet just. In the Psalms, this kind of graciousness is often coupled with patience, mercy, and love (Psalms 86:15, 103:8, 116:5, 145:8). Should we not as brothers and sisters in Christ be patient and merciful and loving towards each other as God has been to us?
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Yet how often are we quick to judge our brothers? (I speak as a capital offender!) We take out our spiritual magnifying glasses to pin point the specks in our brother’s eye, all the while walking around with tree trunks lodged in our eyes. We take aim at fellow believers, shooting down the very family of God, forgetting to remove our own optical logs. Instead of being hasty in our judgment and reckless with our critical remarks, we should all be more careful when we call out other Christians. In the arena of the church, humility is the key to wisdom (Proverbs 11:2).
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And please don’t mistake me: I’m not encouraging ecumenism. I am encouraging biblical love towards believers. Granted, we must be discerning Christians who love God’s law and hold ourselves and our brothers accountable to the standard of God’s decree. However, I’m simply encouraging us to be gracious in our attitudes and words and actions towards those brothers and sisters in Christ who are not in active rebellion to God, but may be off-centered in their theology or misguided in their practice (or at least we think they are). I think of my Arminian brothers or those who believe in ongoing revelatory gifts or those who…… [fill in the blank]. We can—and should—engage these brethren in biblical discussion on such matters; but when we do, may we be filled with grace. Likewise, when we seek to shepherd those in our churches who need some real “spurring on,” may we speak the truth with evident love. And when those with whom we speak do not immediately agree with us and change their ways, let us rejoice in the Lord knowing we both were bought with the blood of the Lamb and we’ll both spend eternity at His feet.
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Finally, let us do away with the pride that comes from our deep study of doctrine. (But for the grace of God, we are dumb.) Let us do away with the arrogance that accompanies years of church attendance. (But for the grace of God, we are lost.) Let us do away with the judgmentalism of others that goes with rearing godly children. (But for the grace of God, they are dead.) Brothers and sisters, but for the grace of God, we are nothing. Therefore let us boast in nothing but the cross of Christ. And may we always show to others the grace that God has shown to us. br>
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“Amazing grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.” –John Newton
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“The vilest offender who truly believes,
That moment from Jesus a pardon receives.” –Fanny J. Crosby
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